I met my wife in an Institute class. After I came back from my mission, I fell in love with her and we were married in the temple. After many years and four children, she has decided to become inactive in the church. She gave me an ultimatum, demanding that our family leave the church, at least for a time. I feel so conflicted. What advice can you give me?
I'm sorry you're in such a difficult situation. It is, of course, normal for spouses to discuss their mutual spirituality. However, to give an ultimatum as you've described is arguably abusive. I encourage you to discuss this issue with your bishop or branch president. He'll be able to provide better guidance based on the specific details of your situation. Even if you are forced to become less active in the church for a time, know that you don't have to become less active in the gospel. You can continue to read and study your scriptures, to pray and fast regularly, and to discuss gospel topics with your friends and family as appropriate.
God be with you during this difficult time, brother. I'll pray for you.
I'm sorry you're in such a difficult situation. It is, of course, normal for spouses to discuss their mutual spirituality. However, to give an ultimatum as you've described is arguably abusive. I encourage you to discuss this issue with your bishop or branch president. He'll be able to provide better guidance based on the specific details of your situation. Even if you are forced to become less active in the church for a time, know that you don't have to become less active in the gospel. You can continue to read and study your scriptures, to pray and fast regularly, and to discuss gospel topics with your friends and family as appropriate.
God be with you during this difficult time, brother. I'll pray for you.